What to Wear on a First Date

Going on a first date can be daunting and choosing an outfit can play a big part in how you look, feel and act. You want to feel confident and still dress appropriately for the occasion.

Here are a few looks to experiment with, just remember to always dress your shape and your personality:

The Look: Evening Glamour

You can never go past a little black dress – it is always going to be a hit. There are so many designs to choose from and it is important to choose the right shape for your body type. A little black dress can always look different just by mixing and matching your accessories so if you find the right “one” you will always have something to wear out.

A short dress and heels is probably not going to be suitable for a daytime date, but for a nice evening meal or a night out it is perfect. You can always add a bit of extra personality with a pair of bright pumps. If the date doesn’t work out, you are dressed and ready for a girl’s night out!

asos little black dresses

(Dresses: ASOS)

red pumps
(Shoes: MIDAS)

The Look: Casual Girl Next Door

A casual lunch or a day at the movies requires something with a little less impact than a cocktail dress. This doesn’t mean you can wear trackies, but something along the lines of jeans. Jeans are always a safe option as you can dress them up or down.

You can stick with the traditional denim or choose a coloured pair. A nice top, loose hair and a pair of ballet flats (or heels if you are comfortable walking in them) and you are ready to go.

jeans west jeans and top

(Left: Jeanswest Outfit / Right: J.Crew)

 ballet flats

(Ballet flats: J.Crew)

The Look: Sporty Girl

There may be times when you go on a first date which is a little more non traditional. Rock climbing, bike riding, or any other physical activity is a bit trickier to dress for. You want to be appropriate while still looking cute. Hair in a pony tail and minimal makeup will work well with workout gear. Anything unflattering or sweat stained is a no – and if you are wearing leggings (and you don’t have a perfect bod) choose a longer top. Brands like Lorna Jane and Running Bare were created so that women could look and feel amazing while working out so make the most of it!

lorna jane

(Leggings and top: Lorna Jane)

The Look: Feminine

For a feminine daytime look which would suit a picnic or outdoor BBQ, you could choose a maxi dress. Maxi dresses hide your flaws, make you feel feminine without having any worries about them riding up!

If maxi isn’t your style (this shape isn’t’ for everyone) go for a shorter, floral print instead – you will still get that femininity and show off your legs.

teresa frill dress

(Left: Jeans West / Right: ASOS)

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What would you wear on a first date?

258 thoughts on “What to Wear on a First Date

  1. Leave something to the imagination,
    Be classy but still look fine,
    If he calls for another date,
    Hitch the skirt up next time!

  2. for the first date wear somthing which is not too flashy , something more comfortable and classy. u could go for something more attarctive and oh la la in the next date if you like him 😀

  3. On a first date, you want to wear something pretty yet classy. Not much flesh yet you know how to accentuate your assets and hide those unsightlies hahaha. Just something that tells something about you and your personality but without looking cheap — something that will wow him but will give you the respect due.

  4. Wear something classic,your favourite outfit at the time.It doesn’t matter what the colour is as long as it suits you and you feel good in it.

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